tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-47640115599267414742024-02-20T11:58:04.557-07:00A Butterfly WorldThis life is a time for us to spread our wings and learn how to fly.Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.comBlogger196125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-66484334060971090602014-04-10T17:08:00.000-06:002014-04-10T17:08:01.049-06:00New Blog!!!Just in case anyone is still reading this blog I wanted to direct you over to my new blog. You may have noticed I don't post in this one much anymore, but I am updating my new blog more frequently. Please come on over I'd love to have you!!<br /><br />You'll find me at http://lifesdailytreasures.blogspot.com/ <br /><br />See you there!!Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-1800090715205135432013-07-29T10:30:00.000-06:002013-07-29T11:19:13.068-06:00Mother, Grandmother, and FriendOn May 11, 2013 the world lost a beautiful person. She was my grandmother and today would have been her 87th birthday.<br />
<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5AKOZ7D6NxxuvDFGlkePfBD497iucIRhaZ_5ZI5WirRwIMTFzfRvHj5v6SdeIDVEzruQZi7qoEe_31qN43_VQ3bGDhyphenhyphenqULVf2Sahc-tXv_iiB33QZAGWKQbfjnTfLKu_Yd8zWvJPAFqY/s1600/2088848.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5AKOZ7D6NxxuvDFGlkePfBD497iucIRhaZ_5ZI5WirRwIMTFzfRvHj5v6SdeIDVEzruQZi7qoEe_31qN43_VQ3bGDhyphenhyphenqULVf2Sahc-tXv_iiB33QZAGWKQbfjnTfLKu_Yd8zWvJPAFqY/s200/2088848.jpg" width="139" /></a></div>
Loa Tucker was a strong lady. She experienced much adversity throughout her life, but she never gave up, never quit doing the best that she could. She raised seven children and although she wasn't a perfect mother (is there really such a thing) she loved each and every one of them with all her heart. Not long before her death I had the opportunity to sit with her and ask what was one thing she wanted people to remember about her and without any hesitation she replied, "That I loved my kids"<br />
<br />
When I was growing up Grandma lived in Wyoming and so I didn't get to see her very often. My childhood memories of her are kind of vague. I remember little things like the fact that she ALWAYS had a packet of certs in her purse and would let me eat them like they were candy. I remember she loved driving around town in her Lincoln, so much so that it made me feel special riding in the car with her. I even remember the day she sat me on the grass and gave me the birds and the bees talk! When I was about ten years old I went and stayed the summer in Wyoming with her. We went camping together and even took a little trip to the ghost town of South Pass City. However, the thing that stands out most to me from that summer was waking up every morning and eating breakfast together while we watched The Price is Right. I looked forward to it everyday.<br />
<br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgiy3Txs-wDNtgDwVkTqxws5MiD1vrJQbtsaFZTuBiKo-tbNvw3jqAsMKlYJfh5gjn8MHxHiAn6nM70OnvfWIJhMJrhzs6ef2IsHPqji9Rekoa1avExjhOClJHQHuZ5Y8Zagg5NKCSFwz4/s1600/IMG_20120711_021700.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgiy3Txs-wDNtgDwVkTqxws5MiD1vrJQbtsaFZTuBiKo-tbNvw3jqAsMKlYJfh5gjn8MHxHiAn6nM70OnvfWIJhMJrhzs6ef2IsHPqji9Rekoa1avExjhOClJHQHuZ5Y8Zagg5NKCSFwz4/s200/IMG_20120711_021700.jpg" width="200" /></a>Grandma eventually moved to Utah and I was able to spend a lot more time with her. This is when our relationship started to change from just grandma/granddaughter to a friendship. In her younger years she wasn't one who really stuck to the straight and narrow, so it was a big deal the day my grandma got her first temple recommend and went through the temple. I wasn't able to be there with her that day, but I was so happy that because she had made that decision she was able to be there with me when I went through the temple for the first time. It meant so much to me to have her there.<br />
<br />
For the last several years I have gone to visit her almost weekly. I loved just sitting and chatting with her about all the things going on in my life...she wanted to know every detail! A little over a year ago I decided that I needed to get some of Grandma's stories recorded. I would take a tape recorder with me to our visits and then ask her all kinds of questions about her life, her memories, and basically anything she would tell me. These were precious moments for me. I came to know her in a way I never could have otherwise. We really became close as she shared with me the story of her life. I also came to love people I'd never met, people who died before I was old enough to remember them. I came to love them because I could feel her love for them.<br />
<br />
For years we have known that Grandma wasn't in very good health. We knew that we could lose her at anytime, but even knowing that didn't prepare us for the day we actually did lose her. In the back of our minds it felt as though she'd be with us forever. I look back now and cherish even more those days we had together chatting about her life and just chatting in general. They are memories I will hold dear for the rest of my life. I'm extremely grateful I listened to the prompting I had to record her stories. I didn't know what was around the bend, but someone else did.<br />
<br />
Today as we celebrate her 87th birthday I close my eyes and picture her celebrating in heaven. I imagine she's up there playing some grand organ somewhere and dancing with Grandpa. I'm sure she misses those she's left behind here just as we are missing her, but it's comforting to know that this wonderful Mother, Grandmother, and Friend is probably a lot closer than we know showering her love upon us in ways we may never realize.<br />
<br />
I love you Grandma, Happy Birthday.<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dyB_Pkc0WC_DHJgTPnC72_D4vYBBaVBXoPCD3QHtF89qHXiMKWfCJwGjeo2I_tg2OPvFJmHIGYBcwTD1VkI6A' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div>
<br />
<br />Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-54010048262134345832013-07-29T00:05:00.000-06:002013-07-29T00:05:17.540-06:00In the Blink of an EyeThe past three months have been a mixture of emotions for me and my family. Within this short time my grandmother passed away, my brother got married, I had surgery, and now we are preparing for my sister to have surgery the first part of September. <div>
<br /></div>
<div>
It's crazy to me how quickly life changes. Big life events like these literally change the course of our lives. I am realizing that life will never quite be the same; never quite the way it was prior to three months ago. If you had told me the way my day to day life would be right now I would never have believed you. Yet, here I sit, a world changed forever by a handful of moments. </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
One thing I have learned from all of this is that you cannot take one second of life for granted. Life is anything but predictable. None of us know what waits for us around the bend. You never know how much time you have left with those you love. You never know how many healthy days you have left. You don't realize how much impact even happy changes can have on you. Life is to be treasured every single day and not wasted away hoping for better days, more time, or even for life to simply continue on the way it is. </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
It reminds me of a poem I wrote several years ago following my brain surgery where I almost lost my life. I hope you'll read it and take a step back to be thankful for the many blessings you have and to let those in your life know how much you care for them. Celebrate Life Now!</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
<div>
<u>A Lesson Learned</u></div>
<div>
<u><br /></u></div>
<div>
"Quickly! Get over here!</div>
<div>
You're wasting valuable time.</div>
<div>
Don't let her see our fear,</div>
<div>
But her life is on the line."</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
Those were the words the doctor said,</div>
<div>
The ones I was not to hear,</div>
<div>
As I lay there in that hospital bed,</div>
<div>
And wiped away a tear.</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
Dark fear was pounding at my heart,</div>
<div>
Fierce pain took my breath away,</div>
<div>
As I hung my head to ask the Lord,</div>
<div>
"Please bring me through this awful day."</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
My life has taken a new turn,</div>
<div>
My eyes have opened wide.</div>
<div>
A scary way for this lesson to be learned,</div>
<div>
But it's what I needed inside.</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
The sun rises every day,</div>
<div>
The trees grow higher and higher.</div>
<div>
Flowers bloom along the way,</div>
<div>
A bright spring day, now a little brighter.</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
Take time to watch the sunset,</div>
<div>
And view the flowers around the bend.</div>
<div>
Celebrate each day you've met,</div>
<div>
You never know when it will end.</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
-Tiffany Goodson</div>
</div>
Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-88640307458155459332013-03-26T13:33:00.000-06:002013-03-26T13:33:23.543-06:00Do the Right Thing"You will have challenges and hard decisions to make throughout your life. But determine now to always do what is right and let the consequence follow. The consequence will always be for your best good. You will learn that it is easiest over the long run to stand for what is right and do the difficult thing to begin with. Once you take that position, following through is not too hard. An individual who cuts corners and justifies some departure from true standards for whatever reason finds that seeds are planted that produce problems later. Those problems are far more difficult to overcome than taking a correct stand initially." Elder Richard G. Scott (Ensign, June 1997)<br />
<br />
I came across this quote earlier today and have had it on my mind all day. I know that doing the right thing is not always easy, in fact sometimes it's extremely hard, but I have also come to know that doing the right thing is <i>always </i>the best thing to do...no matter what.<br />
<br />
Going to church last Sunday when I didn't feel well at all wasn't the easiest thing to do, but it was the right thing to do. It was tough smiling and pretending I felt okay, and once I got home I seriously just crashed into bed, but I was able to partake of the sacrament, and feel the spirit. Paying my tithing the first of every month isn't an easy thing to do, but it is the right thing. My budget is very tight and I'm not always sure how I'm going to make it through the rest of the month, but as I had my tithing to a member of the bishopric I get that peaceful feeling that things will all work out and I just have to trust in that. Finding a modest dress for my brothers wedding isn't an easy task, but I know that it is the right thing. Many in the world have lost sight of the Lord's standards for dress. They have traded faith for fashion. I know that the Lord will bless me as I stick to His standards and place faith above fashion.<br />
<br />
The right thing will always be the right thing and when we do what is right the Lord will bless us for our faith and obedience. Things will always work out better in the end if we do the right thing to begin with. I have a strong testimony of this!<br />
<br />
Luvs & HugsTiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-38220926944341114102013-03-21T18:18:00.000-06:002013-03-21T18:18:15.043-06:00Focus on the FunI recently started a new medication and whenever you do that there seems to always be a few bumps along the road that need figuring out as the body adjusts to the medication. I have spent a lot of time at the hospital lately trying to get the correct testing and diagnosis to iron out these bumps for me.<br />
<br />
I spend enough time at the hospital that it is kind of like a second home to me. I've had several surgeries, procedures, tests, and emergency room visits. One thing I have learned through all my time in this place is that you have to do things to make it fun, because the hospital is pretty much the least fun place you could be...I mean they don't even have good food!<br />
<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinpOG90Y4Ql_L1MbZVxttVZn44ACCKeV3kRDqi3r8-ADEp05rcKQncngZ9Zyed7uxBY8nWd3fNTCbTLvZnauARx8CXYFSjQzPJJ9IIJMex4TLYvGs8eZjXtS9bnyG5Irp3Cd5_umH-ORE/s1600/scan0006.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinpOG90Y4Ql_L1MbZVxttVZn44ACCKeV3kRDqi3r8-ADEp05rcKQncngZ9Zyed7uxBY8nWd3fNTCbTLvZnauARx8CXYFSjQzPJJ9IIJMex4TLYvGs8eZjXtS9bnyG5Irp3Cd5_umH-ORE/s320/scan0006.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
This picture was taken the day of my first surgery. I was getting my tonsils out. Now, you can look at this and think of all the not fun things going on around me from the sterile hospital equipment all around to the fact that I'm about to wake up in a lot of pain. However, I love looking at this and all the fun I am having. I am totally wearing my clown pj's (what's more fun than that!), I get to ride to the OR in this fancy schmancy red wagon, and in a little while I get to wake up and eat as many popsicles as I want!</div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Last summer I was in the hospital a lot for various procedures and one particular day I was up there for a spinal tap. They had me change into some sterile hospital clothes for the procedure and afterward as I was changing back I commented to my mom about how comfortable I thought the hospital pants were. The next thing I know she opens up the closet containing the hospital clothes and starts stuffing pants into my purse. I looked at her like she was crazy and then just started laughing! She was stealing pants for me. She placed my wallet on top of the pants and zipped my purse up as much as she could so you couldn't see the pants. As we made our way out of the hospital she kept saying things like "Just act natural, no one will ever know", then we would both just laugh. To this day I find myself laughing whenever I wear a pair of my stolen hospital pants. </div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Life gives us situations that are tough and sometimes we are surrounded by things that just aren't fun. It is up to us to find a way to smile through the pain. Every bad situation has the potential for joy and laughter it's all in how you approach it and whether you decide to focus on the pain or make it as fun as possible. I'm not saying it's easy and at times we can't do it on our own. We must turn to family and friends to help us find the laughter in our sorrows. I stayed at my mom's most of last summer due to the health challenges I was experiencing and recall having one day that was particularly tough. I spent most of the day lying on my mom's bed just crying because of the pain I was in and the depressing state of my health. My mom came home from work and found me like this at first she was concerned and asked what was wrong and then she decided I had spent enough time lying there crying about it so she got next to me on the bed and just started tickling me. I was upset at first...the last thing I was in the mood for was being tickled...but she was relentless and wouldn't let up until I started laughing. We all have someone in our lives that can tickle the pain our of us either literally or figuratively. So, choose now to find a way to laugh through the pain you are going through and focus on the fun. </div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Luvs & Hugs</div>
<br />Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-50102659879223703532013-03-11T10:00:00.000-06:002013-03-11T10:00:04.835-06:00Caterpillar Days<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"></span><br />
<div>
“There is nothing in the caterpillar that tells you it is going to be a butterfly.” Buckminster Fuller</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoNXGZChz2FKgMUS5JSaVvh60im1Y_YtYi9VDVebvpfUeNV_6qX1ZGgI_vx0gg_j38W9HYD0hJRneqHp5xkG3A82XFpKfHrQNzhqDqTWMYZVBxxz2JS6wmSp5WEU14WrxnJMFvlyF_LWk/s1600/caterpillar-hi.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="100" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoNXGZChz2FKgMUS5JSaVvh60im1Y_YtYi9VDVebvpfUeNV_6qX1ZGgI_vx0gg_j38W9HYD0hJRneqHp5xkG3A82XFpKfHrQNzhqDqTWMYZVBxxz2JS6wmSp5WEU14WrxnJMFvlyF_LWk/s200/caterpillar-hi.png" width="200" /></a>A friend of mine sent this quote to me today and I had to post it on here. I like it a lot. You don't look at a caterpillar and view it as a butterfly, just like there are days I look in the mirror and don't see the butterfly inside of me.<br />
<br />
We all have days where we feel like a sluggish caterpillar eating everything in sight as we mope around. We may look in the mirror and think we can't go outside today or else we will frighten people. We may be facing a problem and think we don't have what it takes to overcome it. Caterpillar days are ones where we don't feel very confident in ourselves. Our self-esteem may be low and we are struggling to find the joy in our day. Our thoughts are consistently negative and self-defeating. Caterpillar days don't always happen every day, but they do happen and we all have them.<br />
<br />
Sometimes though, we may find ourselves stuck in a caterpillar rut...you have several caterpillar days in a row and just can't seem to see your inner butterfly. So, what do you do to get yourself out of a caterpillar rut??<br />
<br />
Here are some things I do:<br />
<br />
Activities: I find something I enjoy doing and force myself to do it even if I'm not "feeling" it. This can be crafts, hobbies, reading, shopping, etc. I enjoy card making. I started doing it because I hate buying cards that people are just going to throw away anyway and I had a bunch of scrapbooking material so I just decided to make my own. I discovered I rather enjoyed it. I like seeing the reaction people have when they realize you have given them a handmade card. It makes it more personal. It's something I can physically do to lift my spirits and distract my mind from the caterpillar thoughts.<br />
<br />
Contributing: Do something to help someone else. Contribute something to the world around you. I love volunteering to help others. It gets me out of my caterpillar state of mind and puts others at the forefront of my day. Serving others makes you feel good inside and that is a butterfly feeling any day! It doesn't have to be something big, just be thoughtful and find a way to contribute something that will benefit someone else.<br />
<br />
Environmental Changes: Sometimes a caterpillar day comes because you are stuck in behind a desk all day or stuck in the house all day. A change of environment can create a change in attitude. Take a small break, go outside, feel the sun on your face, breathe in fresh air. If you can't completely change your physical environment then change your mental environment. Listen to some uplifting music, read some jokes, view an inspiration video on you tube. Whatever it is you do make it the opposite of how you are feeling.<br />
<br />
Gratitude: On caterpillar days we tend to see only the things that are causing us to feel down and we don't see the many blessings surrounding us. Grab a pen and paper and write down the things you are thankful for. Take time to look around you and notice things you may not have noticed before. The air you breathe, the beauty of a flower, the comforts of a pillow, etc. Challenge yourself to see how many things you can come up with, don't just stop at five or ten, list as many as you can!<br />
<br />
These are just a few of the things I do on my caterpillar days. I'd love to hear some of the things you do that I have not listed. We are all butterflies but it takes some hard work to break through our cocoons and discover that butterfly within us. The great thing is that we all have the power to do it! Every one of us can do it! Not a single person on this planet has to be stuck being a caterpillar if they don't want to. You just have to make the choice.<br />
<br />
Luvs & Hugs</div>
Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-3384758102511949632013-03-05T16:28:00.000-07:002013-03-05T16:28:08.151-07:00The Child WithinHave you ever had the urge to do something that society says you shouldn't because it would make you immature? Laugh at a joke that shouldn't be funny? Snuggle with a stuffed animal? Watch Saturday morning cartoons?<br />
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
No matter how old we get every one of us has a child inside that will never really grow up. We long for the fun carefree lifestyle we lived has children. We still want to wish upon a star and have believe all our dreams will come true. Yet we tend to take this child and stuff them into a corner. We tell them they have no right to be silly, and that they need to grow up and forget about the childish nonsense of dreams and wishes. We are too afraid that someone will see our goofiness and judge us. We don't want to be looked down upon for the way we are acting. I wonder though, if they would really look down on us or if they would be more inclined to join us? </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
I recently came across a photo of my friends and I on spring break a few years ago. We went to San Diego to soak up the sun and get away from the stresses of college life. One of places we went during the trip was Legoland. A theme park designed mostly for younger children. We didn't care. We had so much fun that day! We even rode a little roller coaster, laughing and screaming as if we were at Six Flags. I recall the ride attendant smiling and commenting on how much fun we were having. We then asked him to take our picture, because we didn't want to forget that moment.<br />
<br /></div>
<div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkBeUN4kgTuXAgYUbOXcGcREDik60PlScV3hGTeJPyH6F4qO1TUiIaoInYWFBfWRUYMVfsPVIsMPpiYc5SneOUO02huobF2K5ep4MyA1Je2DGQ2sydDrp1AoyNMex7x-XItSXyhFWFvZ8/s1600/002.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkBeUN4kgTuXAgYUbOXcGcREDik60PlScV3hGTeJPyH6F4qO1TUiIaoInYWFBfWRUYMVfsPVIsMPpiYc5SneOUO02huobF2K5ep4MyA1Je2DGQ2sydDrp1AoyNMex7x-XItSXyhFWFvZ8/s320/002.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>
<br /></div>
<div>
Take a minute today to celebrating this child within. I believe that you are never too old to be goofy. Life would be so boring if we never took the time to be silly and do something maturity says we shouldn't.Sure, people might judge you; they may even call you immature, but do you really need their approval? Don't worry about other people and do this for you. Go cuddle with a teddy bear and watch some cartoons. Go jump on the trampoline with your kids, run through the sprinklers, or even have a pillow fight. You know you want to!</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
<br /></div>
Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-6440756419864623062013-02-14T17:12:00.000-07:002013-02-14T17:12:01.061-07:00Family means Love<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
With today being Valentines Day, I wanted to write about the people I love....and since it's Throwback Thursday I am posting some old pictures of those people. </div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
I recently read a statement that said, "Family: Today's little moments become tomorrow's precious memories." That is exactly how I feel about my family. I have so many precious memories with these people that are so close to me. Memories I hope to never forget. </div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
The members of my family are definitely my best friends. For me family truly means love. It means loving and being loved for the rest of your life...no matter what. Family means always having someone there to talk to, and always having someone there to listen. It means you are part of something extraordinary. Family means always having someone to laugh with and laugh at. It is the purest form of love that exists. </div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
Families are not always perfect and mine is no exception, but with every bump in the road we experience we grow closer together. It's because of the hard things we've had to go through that I know my family members are always there to lean on. I know I can call them any time day or night and they will be there to help me in times of need. Watching members of my family hit hard times and then fight their way back means that I know I can do it too. We are all there to support and encourage one another. We come together in the trials. </div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
My family is kind of crazy. We like to have fun and that means lots of laughs. Families are the people you can act like a complete fool around and they'll still love you the next day...but in my family it also means that they'll join you in acting like a fool. In the picture below you'll see a photo of my mom and I playing in the ocean in our street clothes. I remember that day like it was yesterday. We had just arrived in San Diego and wanted to quickly check out the beach, but didn't plan on playing in it just yet. However, the temptation to get our feet wet was too enticing and before you know it we were in up to our knees. People were looking at us like we were nuts and as we walked back to the hotel someone asked why in the world we had done it. We just smiled and laughed and said "Why not?" It was crazy, but it was fun, and it is a wonderful memory. I have so many other memories like this. Road trips with my brother, dance parties with my sister, laughs upon laughs upon laughs!</div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
I love my family to the moon and back and I know they feel the same way. </div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: start;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<span style="text-align: start;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTSk_OZHqs7Yej-Hn8-P6AB3B7kq26Hpbmhln1vEk4nPA6YfZWw2pIwjET2tzEQm4YTzOd3FSTaAfu-DO_BiYyaTPr-lZ89NYc4tHrb1cSm3mjDY_kSSMYZRefjoJqWwJmV4eOjdSJpR8/s1600/Family+Love.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTSk_OZHqs7Yej-Hn8-P6AB3B7kq26Hpbmhln1vEk4nPA6YfZWw2pIwjET2tzEQm4YTzOd3FSTaAfu-DO_BiYyaTPr-lZ89NYc4tHrb1cSm3mjDY_kSSMYZRefjoJqWwJmV4eOjdSJpR8/s400/Family+Love.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>
<br />
<br />Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-15703150158390975722013-02-11T09:30:00.000-07:002013-02-11T09:30:02.633-07:00One WordLife is a journey of discovery and change. We all have goals, dreams, desires. We have things we want to do in our future, and things we want to quit doing. For one reason or another we all want to do better, be better, grow, develop, and change. This desire for growth is something I believe is in all of us. The things we want to change are different for everyone. We all have our own unique strengths and weakness. We all have different things we need to change and/or improve on in order to grow and reach our full potential. One thing I have learned is that the more we grow and improve upon our personal weaknesses the more we become who we were meant to be...who we truly are on the inside. <div>
<br /></div>
<div>
Think of some ways in which you want to grow. Is there a certain thing you need to change in order to find that growth? Is there something you feel is missing from your life that you want to find and hold onto until it becomes a part of you? Is there specific goal you want to achieve? </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
Now, that you've been thinking about what it is you need in order to further develop into the person you want to be I have another question for you... How would you describe that in one simple word?? </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
I am getting ready to start on a project, a personal journey of discovery. It is a year long journey focused on one thing. In fact it is all focused on one word. The basic idea of this project is that you choose one word to focus on for the year. Then each month there are certain mini projects that you do to help this word take life in you. The goal is to really take time to cultivate what this word means for you and your personal desires for growth and by the end of the year it is something that you have not only learned from, but that has changed you, helped you to breathe deeper, see clearer, grow, and become more of the real you. </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
As I prepare to begin this year long journey I am trying to decide what word I am going to choose for this project. I have had many words come to mind and am trying to choose the one that will mean the most to me. Here are a few of the words I'm trying to choose from: hope, happiness, faith, love, and peace. </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
What would your word be? Please comment on this blog or my facebook post and let me know. I'd be curious to hear your thoughts on this. Also keep in mind that I may be blogging about this journey I'm embarking on several times throughout the year...just a head's up! </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizjseHNuTc4grCosaWQwtpD7pY7qXf96zCW8uo2tUrbtLnkD0Icx7Rd4YY1iDdvfbnkKHOc_-6zr_ufFuC6-esuH5bMfErOTmMC7IVNwNnvRw7BmRgwr6piY4gjwNrtv6zZsVeHjOlvCg/s1600/words_have_the_power.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizjseHNuTc4grCosaWQwtpD7pY7qXf96zCW8uo2tUrbtLnkD0Icx7Rd4YY1iDdvfbnkKHOc_-6zr_ufFuC6-esuH5bMfErOTmMC7IVNwNnvRw7BmRgwr6piY4gjwNrtv6zZsVeHjOlvCg/s320/words_have_the_power.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
Luvs & Hugs</div>
<div>
Tiff</div>
Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-38650214601575050452013-02-07T09:00:00.000-07:002013-02-07T09:00:03.457-07:00Hidden Talents??<i>Throwback Thursday: I've been reading through some of my old journals lately and love reminiscing about the past and looking at how it has or hasn't affected who I am today. I decided that every Thursday I'm going to write a blog post about something in my past. Could be from when I was little or maybe it was just last year. I don't know, we're just going to try it and see how it goes. </i><br />
<br />
When I was in elementary school we had to write a poem about wishes for Language class. I recently came across the poem I wrote and couldn't help but chuckle.<br />
<br />
<div style="text-align: center;">
<u>If I Had A Wish</u></div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
<u><br /></u></div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
If I had a wish then it would be that I had more wishes</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
one, two, three</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
The first one I'd use would be for others. </div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
For all abused children, I'd wish them kinder fathers and mothers</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
The second one would be for my family</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
My sister, my brother, my father and mother.</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
That we would grow closer in kindness and love,</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
So we can be together forever above.</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
The best wish of all I'd save until last.</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
All my friends and I to my house we will flock,</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
To hear a song being sung to me by </div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
New Kids on the Block!</div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
<br /></div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
I used to be SO obsessed with New Kids On The Block. I had NKOTB backpack, lunchbox, tons of albums, and even a doll that looked like the lead singer. They were the One Direction of my day and it makes me laugh to look back now at how crazy and obsessed I was over them. I can definitely say this was a stage I grew out of. </div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
Looking back on this poem though I realize how much I loved to write even at a young age. I was too busy being a kid to realize it, but the passion for writing was always there. When I was in second grade I submitted a writing piece for my school's Reflections contest. A contest where students are encouraged to use their creative talents to express themselves in an original piece of work. I don't think I really understood all of that when I was six, but I was encouraged by my teacher and my parents to participate, so I did. The theme that year was "I'm Proud To Be...". I wrote an essay on how proud I was to be the sister of a child with Down Syndrome. I honestly didn't think it was anything special when I submitted it to my teacher. Then came the shocking news that I had won in my category. I felt special and have kept that essay all these years. When I was young I had no idea how much writing would mean to me as I got older. I had no idea how this talent would play a role in my life. I also didn't realize how much this writing thing was a part of my life when I was a child until recently when I came across this poem and took time to sit and think about all the writing I did as a kid. I thought my love of writing started when I was in high school, but the more I think about it I realize that it started much earlier than that. </div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
God has given each of us gifts and talents. Some of us know exactly what those talents are and how to use them, others of us are still trying to figure it out. I know He has not left us alone in this search. If you are one who is still trying to figure out what your special talent is I encourage you to go read your patriarchal blessing, read through old journals, take an inventory of things you enjoy, and things you are naturally good at, and most importantly pray about it. I'm still trying to figure out what it is I'm supposed to be doing with my writing and how the Lord wants me to be using this talent. It is a life-long process, but there is joy in the journey as we discover more about ourselves and the amazing things we can do. </div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
Now, I'll leave you with a small piece of my old obsession.... :)</div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.youtube.com/embed/ay6GjmiJTPM?feature=player_embedded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-29246051113446188962013-01-20T17:28:00.000-07:002013-01-20T17:28:21.393-07:00Resolutions, Goals, Commitments? I can't believe it is already the middle of January? Where did all that time go? I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and a happy New Years. I think New Years shouldn't start on January 1st. I think it should start sometime mid-January...like now. I set these resolutions and get on pinterest and plan all these fun things I'm going to do every day of 2013 (that's still weird to me), but then life gets so busy with Christmas and family things and the celebrating of the year change that I forget all about those goals until things settle down a bit. The problem is that by then I've already broken the goal to do certain things every day of the year, because my brain didn't come out of the holiday coma until 2-3 weeks into the year. Now you know why I believe the "new year" shouldn't really start counting until about mid-January....at least in my world.<br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhA6-HtCesnDz5-WoYa01g3D_nEwDg2plaNqQo6Lulqro3hS7twQ1VIzioPRBq_nqMBiwcQNbLS7vYpsrL5CS5CDOdxcE4HFK6_eyZr2GlcTWhW0Dndk6Iw0OjlWaeP1Qh-k0tEj1jpHcw/s1600/Today.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhA6-HtCesnDz5-WoYa01g3D_nEwDg2plaNqQo6Lulqro3hS7twQ1VIzioPRBq_nqMBiwcQNbLS7vYpsrL5CS5CDOdxcE4HFK6_eyZr2GlcTWhW0Dndk6Iw0OjlWaeP1Qh-k0tEj1jpHcw/s200/Today.jpg" width="155" /></a><br />
So, now that I've woken from my holiday coma I want to talk about my goals for the year. The things I hope to accomplish and areas of my life I desire to improve on. As I write my list I hope you think of your list, and if you're like me and life is just barely coming together after the holidays your "new year" can start now as well!<br />
<br />
1. My Stake Presidency gave us a few challenges for the new year. One is something that is simply called the 1, 10, 15 Plan. They would like us to perform 1 act of Christian service a day. It doesn't matter how small or big just doing something Christlike for another person. My stake has always been one that had sacrament meeting last, which I know isn't very common in the church anymore but that's the way it's been, at the beginning of the year they switched it so that we have sacrament meeting first. I guess we were finally righteous enough to join in the traditions of the bulk of the church! Because of this change and wanting to maintain reverence in sacrament meeting they have asked us to always leave 10 minutes early for church. I am working on this one, but so far am not doing so well in this goal. I'll keep you posted on my progress. Finally they have challenged us all to read our scriptures at least 15 minutes each day. Thus, the 1, 10, 15 Plan. These are three challenges that I am hoping to be able to accomplish each day/week. I know that as I follow through with these goals I will draw closer to the Spirit.<br />
<br />
2. The other major thing the Stake President challenged us to do was to read the entire Book of Mormon by July 1st. I am also hoping to accomplish this. However, I don't really enjoy just reading the Book of Mormon. I like to study it. Study always takes a bit longer than reading, but if I don't finish by the deadline I'm sure the Lord will understand. I have decided to study the doctrines and principles of the Book of Mormon. I am marking each in a different color as well as writing down all the ones I find in my study notebook. So, far this has been a really fun journey. I am excited about the things I am learning and doctrines and principles I've read a million times that I never realized were there. It is helping me to see the Book of Mormon in a completely different light and strengthening my testimony that there is no way Joseph Smith could have just "written" this book. It is a divine gift from my Heavenly Father filled with things to bless my life.<br />
<br />
3. I am going to keep a gratitude journal. I know the point is to start on January first and write down 365 things you are thankful for, but I'm sure I'll have days there I will write more than one thing so It'll make up for the first 19 days I've missed. To me the point of a gratitude journal is to help me focus more on all the wonderfully positive things in my life. The amazing blessings I receive each and every day. I'm so looking forward to this!!<br />
<br />
4. My last goal is to continue the goals I've already been living in my life. I want to continue to eat healthier, and drink more water. I want to continue building my self-confidence and living up to the potential that is within me.<br />
<br />
I hope you have goals that are specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time-bound. I hope you have goals that are simple enough you can follow through with them and once you've reached those goals set them a little bit higher so that you are always striving to be a little bit better. Life is not about being dormant, life is about becoming all we were meant to become. I pray you will find at least one goal that can do that for you and commit to it with all you have. Stick to a task until it sticks to you!Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-87451795097318801882012-12-17T15:34:00.000-07:002012-12-17T15:34:18.444-07:00Christmas ProjectHave you ever taken on a project thinking it is going to be super awesome only to find that it is a lot harder than you thought it would be? Well that is where I find myself today...okay, the past several days. It is also the reason I haven't been writing on this blog as consistently this month.<br />
<br />
A few weeks ago I was on the phone with my sister and asked her what she wanted for Christmas. Her answer: "You know when your on Broadway and you go backstage and have a mirror with lights all around it and a chair with your name on it and you put your make-up on and and have costumes and wigs and a script...Yeah, I want all that!" I hung up the phone wondering how in the world I was going to pull that one off!<br />
<br />
I decided to ditch the idea of the lighted mirror and chair, she can pretend on those things. I didn't want to abandon the whole though, and spent a few days really thinking about what I could get her. One afternoon I was browsing the internet looking for inspiration and had a brilliant idea! I would write her a musical!!<br />
<br />
What a super awesome idea right?!? I decided to write her a script that she could act out over and over in her room. It would be original so that will make it fun for her. I could download songs off of Itunes to fit with my script and make her a "soundtrack" that she can sing-a-long with as she acts it out. I even thought that if I had time when I was all done I could go to the DI and look for costume ideas for the characters. It was brilliant and I was super excited about it.<br />
<br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWZBylimbPYquHPzsjDTAFrnAQ89jOh2ZWfowEy0Zt0GJ-OfA6WHvaG2SS6_BJI6VvcUJFSuNcXOsrfGkLEFbzZn9uRNic1InbDaCySQAwV0VIHEZX4O6S1TG0P3M1iKJmHaf4rFON8nQ/s1600/black-woman-at-work-stressed12.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="120" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWZBylimbPYquHPzsjDTAFrnAQ89jOh2ZWfowEy0Zt0GJ-OfA6WHvaG2SS6_BJI6VvcUJFSuNcXOsrfGkLEFbzZn9uRNic1InbDaCySQAwV0VIHEZX4O6S1TG0P3M1iKJmHaf4rFON8nQ/s200/black-woman-at-work-stressed12.jpg" width="200" /></a>Fast forward to today...It is eight days til Christmas and I am still working on the script. It has turned out to be a much bigger task than I had envisioned. Writing a script is a lot harder than simply writing a story. I have had to think differently than I am used to in order to convey my thoughts through the characters dialogue and actions. Oh and did I mention that my biggest weakness when it comes to writing is dialogue? I have always struggling with dialogue and a script is 99% dialogue!! Making it a musical is another new and difficult thing because I have to figure out how to transition my dialogue's into songs and then back to dialogue. Finding songs that perfectly fit into everything is another daunting part of this project.<br />
<br />
While I am completely overwhelmed with this project I am also determined. I want to do this for her and for me. Trying new things is always hard, but that is how we learn and grow. Once I have completed this project my confidence in writing will increase. I will feel proud of myself for accomplishing something that really strained me and not quitting when the going got rough. It's things like this that push us to step out of the routine of our daily lives and discover the power that really lies within us. Projects like this can be difficult, but they can also be fun. Step outside of your comfort zone and do something that will stretch you. I promise there will be times when you'll be just like me and want to shut off the computer and buy a gift card to the movie, but pressing forward will bring great rewards and you'll find you are capable of doing so much more than you ever thought you could.Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-3023958810514671122012-12-07T00:24:00.001-07:002012-12-07T00:24:35.527-07:00You Are Intentional <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
I've been really bummed out this week. There are a number of reasons for this. It started out with some family drama. Then, I had the flu...spending three days in bed with aches and fevers would bum anyone out! Luckily, I got over that though and the family drama sort of worked itself out, but I still found myself sitting on the couch feeling down. </div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
I started thinking about all the things my life isn't and all the things I haven't done. I'm not as pretty as Betty*, as talented as Nancy, or as popular as Jane. I'm 31-years-old and don't have much to show for it. I haven't accomplished all the things I wish I had or that I see others around me doing. As these thoughts inched their way into my mind my mood spiraled downward. (*names have been changed to protect those who will probably never even read this)</div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Then I came across the following picture...</div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgG7PzLPBPHfUjyM5nPLy2HsS6E-_mZaNvkRRqcICD0eRkisr7j-COKC94mNg6qqbO2TweswLryM_dUqdc-pppjn1WlkZiYNP_LqJdUsNg5RvDRtpbGQGLPDyUx-k5XpPduRmOOSA3ZQCs/s1600/God's+plan.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="223" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgG7PzLPBPHfUjyM5nPLy2HsS6E-_mZaNvkRRqcICD0eRkisr7j-COKC94mNg6qqbO2TweswLryM_dUqdc-pppjn1WlkZiYNP_LqJdUsNg5RvDRtpbGQGLPDyUx-k5XpPduRmOOSA3ZQCs/s320/God's+plan.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
<i>God's design of you is intentional. You aren't like your parents, siblings, or friends for a reason. And that's a good thing, because God doesn't want you to be like them. He wants you to be YOU. The challenge today is to release the expectations you've placed on yourself and explore God's amazing plan for you. You'll soon discover that everyone has something to offer!</i></div>
<br />
Wow! Can we say tender mercy!?! Reading that felt like getting spiritually slapped upside the head! I was made to be ME, not Betty, Nancy, or Jane! God's design of me was intentional, I was not His first big oops! He does not see me sitting here on the couch accomplishing nothing with my life and say, "Yeah, not really sure what I was thinking on <i>that </i>one". I matter for one reason or another I matter.<br />
<br />
I then started to wonder if me being me was so intentional...what <i>was </i>God thinking? What am I doing that I'm just not seeing right now?<br />
<br />
I don't have a job like everyone else does, but because of that I am free to help out a friend with outfit changes at a photoshoot...not everyone else gets to do that. I'm also free to spend an afternoon visiting with my recently widowed landlady...not everyone has the time to serve like that. I may not be married and have children of my own, but because of that I get to be "the best cousin ever" to the most amazing kids I've ever met. I get to help out in Savannah's kindergarten class and play with the kids at the family gatherings while everyone else is busy screaming, "don't you dare touch that" for the hundredth time. I may not be the person with the most friends, but because of that I can be the best friend I know how to the ones I do have. I can send them a message to let them know they are thought about. I can include each and every one of them in my prayers. I can make sure they feel like friends and not just another person, not everyone gets to do that.<br />
<br />
My life may not be all the things I wanted it to be. I might still have days where I run into Nancy and long for something a little more, but I will always know I matter. I was born with a purpose. I may not always know what that purpose is, but I know that if I keep doing my best with what I have been given God will find a way to use me for whatever he needs done.Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-23203236728990769772012-12-03T08:00:00.000-07:002012-12-03T08:00:09.448-07:00ImaginationAs Christmas time approaches I find myself withdrawing a lot into my imagination as I dream of sugar plums dancing in my head. Christmastime is so full of magic and wonder that pulls at my heart strings and makes me feel just like a kid again.<br />
<br />
When I was younger my parents did a lot to help keep the magic of Christmas alive for me. I remember one year I sat down on a night close to Christmas to write my letter to Santa. I wasn't quite finished with my letter when my mom came in telling me it was time for bed. I begged her to let me finish my letter first, but she insisted I get to bed and could finish it in the morning. I carefully folded the letter and put it in the envelope, and placed it in the center of the table where it would be safe til the next day. When morning came I ran to the kitchen to finish my letter so we could get it in the mail that day...Christmas was coming soon and I didn't have much time left to get it to Santa. I stopped dead in my tracks as I entered the kitchen to find the tabletop completely bare. Where was my letter?!? I frantically questioned my parents about it and neither had touched it. I was so upset. I looked everywhere for it and was so sad when I couldn't find it. I knew there was not enough time to write a new letter and get it to Santa in time for Christmas. I remember feeling so sad.<br />
<br />
The following evening as I was watching tv I heard the ringing of Christmas bells just outside my house. I quickly shut off the television and listened intently, sure enough I heard them again. Running into the living room I heard a soft knock at the door and opened it to find Santa at my house!! He'd stopped by around Christmastime before, but I was still so happy to see him. As he settled down on the couch and my parents joined us. He said that he'd had his elves out and about helping him double check the naughty and nice list and one of them had brought something to him. He reached in his pocket and pulled out none other than my letter!! I almost started crying I was so excited!! I hadn't lost it after all, the elves saw me writing and thought they would save me the trouble of mailing it by delivering it themselves!! Santa said he'd noticed it wasn't quite finished and thought he would pop in and ask what it was I wanted for Christmas.<br />
<br />
The second Santa left my house that night I rushed to the phone to call everyone I knew and tell them the exciting tale of Santa and my letter.<br />
<br />
I am extremely grateful for parents that loved me enough to do things like that! Experiences like this one are the foundation for my imagination. I have always believed that God blessed me with a creative mind, but it was the magical experiences my parents gave me each chance they could that fueled my creativity. Albert Einstein once said, "Logic will get you from A to Z, Imagination will get you everywhere." This has been true in my life. I am not a very logical person, I am terrible at math and logical things; but oh the things my imagination can unlock for me. Whenever life takes a toll on me and has me feeling really down the one sure fire thing I have to combat it is my imagination. I close my eyes and escape into a world of wonder and mystery. I imagine a day where everything in my life went perfectly and when I open my eyes I find a smile on my face. Does it change the fact that I still have to face the reality of my problems, no, but it does make it easier to bear.<br />
<br />
Without imagination life is dull, boring, and can only take you so far. Imagination is the basis of every dream come true. Every famous actor started out as a child imagining themselves as a star. Every big music star began as a child imagining themselves on a stage with thousands of people screaming their name. Behind every technological breakthrough is someone with an imagination. Behind every major blockbuster is a person with an imagination.<br />
<br />
If we learn to use our imagination the possibilities of our world become limitless. So, where will your imagination take you?Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-58138956350728800742012-11-29T15:45:00.000-07:002012-11-29T15:45:04.259-07:00Wandering Off<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYhfPMF2FMEpwZFQGgGh3xn7PYh3VFKiO9J9SIttuf4iBKcXj7M8EX5rnKhHYtg344gAHkTeQrblv_1e9Un1v3LRIWPhGK5dbhzaeuP9-luaHoon7I2Kzz-4HtNbVvBorAQiQ0GkSI9g8/s1600/536936_203065433141243_100003133641079_324528_1297677722_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYhfPMF2FMEpwZFQGgGh3xn7PYh3VFKiO9J9SIttuf4iBKcXj7M8EX5rnKhHYtg344gAHkTeQrblv_1e9Un1v3LRIWPhGK5dbhzaeuP9-luaHoon7I2Kzz-4HtNbVvBorAQiQ0GkSI9g8/s320/536936_203065433141243_100003133641079_324528_1297677722_n.jpg" width="240" /></a></div>
<br />
I really like this little cartoon. It perfectly describes where I am at in my life. I don't recall the exact moment I let go of the Saviors hands to explore my own paths, but not long ago I found myself looking around and realized just how far away from Him I really was.<br />
<br />
This life is full of detours that look interesting to our mortal eyes. Each one of us have detours that look more appetizing than others. For some it is the allure of drugs and alcohol. Others may be enticed by the idea of power and wealth. I think my downfall was distraction. In the beginning it doesn't seem like a big deal, it starts out so small. One night of watching television rather than reading scriptures, going straight to sleep without saying prayers, choosing to miss church for a little bit of extra sleep. The next thing you know those small things have become habits.<br />
<br />
I firmly believe in repentance, and that once you turn around and start heading back towards the Savior you are finally on the right path. However, repentance is not easy. When we stop doing the small and simple things it makes it easier to stop doing the bigger things too. It becomes much harder to resist even the smallest bit of temptation, and harder to feel the spirit when you do turn off the television and pick up your scriptures. I am on that path now and just like in the cartoon above it is a rocky one. It takes significant effort to do things that once were second nature to me. I find myself tripping over those rocks and wondering if I will ever make it back. During these parts of the journey it is easy to wonder if the Savior is still there or if He's given up hope on you. Yet, no matter what I have done or how far away I have wandered I cannot deny the fact that I know He will always be there waiting for me. He will never give up and leave, He can't, He loves me too much. This thought is extremely comforting as I fight my way back.<br />
<br />
I am not a perfect person and I'm guessing you aren't either. We all have times when we wander off on our own. It's an uphill climb to get back, but it is always worth it. I know I still have some work ahead of me, but I know I can overcome and find myself once again encircled in the loving arms of my Savior...and so can you!<br />
<br />
Luvs & HugsTiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-3743097090940164332012-11-28T20:49:00.000-07:002012-11-28T20:50:21.758-07:00FriendshipsConfession Time: I am 31-years-old and I enjoy watching cartoon movies. <br />
<br />
Whew, it feels so good to get that out in the open! ;0)<br />
<br />
I was recently watching the movie Tinkerbell and the Lost Treasure with my sister. When I heard a short poem that really caught my attention. It read<br />
<br />
<div style="text-align: center;">
<i>The greatest treasures are not gold nor jewels nor works of art. </i></div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
<i>They cannot be held in your hands, they are held within the heart. </i></div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
<i>For worldly things will fade away and seasons come and go,</i></div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
<i>But the Treasure of True Friendship will never lose it's glow!!</i></div>
<div style="text-align: center;">
<br />
<div style="text-align: left;">
I am lucky enough to have a few true friends. My friends aren't ones I see every day. In fact I very rarely see my friends, but I once read a saying that said, "Good friends are like stars. You don't always see them, but you know they're always there." This is how I feel about my friends. I don't have to see them often to know that if I were in trouble and needed them they would be there no matter what. My favorite thing about friends you don't see very often is that when you do see them, it feels like you just hung out yesterday! </div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
I have been working hard to be a more positive person lately and as I've changed I am noticing that I'm much more sensitive to negative people. I just don't have the tolerance for their negative energy that I used to. It seeps into me and then I start feeding off a negative energy, I don't like myself in those moments. I've been making more of an effort to surround myself with positive people, so we can feed off that positive energy rather than always dwelling in the negative. Having said that we all have bad days where we just want to scream at the world and run to our room crying. On those days it's the good friend who patiently lets us have our moment and then when the time is right swoops in and cheers us up. </div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div style="text-align: left;">
Friends are definitely a part of life that none of us can live without. We all need friends to spend time with, to cheer us up, to share exciting news with, etc. Great friends have many different characteristics, but one thing they all have in common is love. True friends love no matter what. </div>
</div>
Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-72355749851389030692012-11-17T09:00:00.000-07:002012-11-17T09:00:02.743-07:00Music Lifts the SoulMusic plays a big role in my life. I am always listening to some kind of music. At home, in the car, when I first wake up, just before I go to sleep...<i>all </i>the time. It amazes me how putting on some music can be the thing that energizes me to wake up or get through a work out, and at the same time is the thing that relaxes me at night and helps me to sleep.<br />
<br />
Music can have a huge impact on my mood. When I'm having a bad day and need some cheering up I can turn on something with a good tempo, dance around a bit, and it's like an instant mood changer. Sometimes on rough days I just need to cry it out rather than dance it out. I turn on some soft mellow music and the notes put me in just the right place for the water works to turn on and drown out whatever is bothering me. Sunday mornings I listen to music while getting ready that helps me feel the spirit and put me in the right mood for church. I love how it helps me feel closer to my Heavenly Father.<br />
<br />
I love songs with lyrics that truly touch the soul; songs that make you stop, think, and feel. There are a lot of songs that I relate to so much it's almost like I could have written them. These are the songs that become more than just something to enjoy, they become a part of who I am. If you've ever heard a song and thought, "Yes! That's exactly how I feel", then you know what I'm talking about. Those songs will almost always have a special place in your heart because when you hear them you'll always remember the time in your life when you felt that way, when that was <i>your </i>song.<br />
<br />
I'm thankful for the power of music in my life. I'm thankful for all those with the talent to make beautiful music. I don't have that talent and am happy that others do and are willing to share it with the rest of us. I'm thankful for the music that is always there for me, like a best friend, helping me through all my bad days and brightening up my already happy ones. I'm thankful God has blessed me with ears to hear the music. I would be so lost without it.<br />
<br />
I have a good friend that is a person with the amazing talent of making beautiful music. I recently had the opportunity to be on set with her as she shot a music video for the song "Listen" from Dreamgirls. I don't want to detail all the reasons why I love this song because what you feel from it may be different from me, and in case you've never heard it I want you to experience it for yourself. I will say that I love it, and I love the way Jessie Funk sings it. She has a beautiful voice that perfectly brings out the emotion of this song. I want to share the video with you today and hope that whatever mood you are in this song will lift your soul.<br />
<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.youtube.com/embed/hPjbTkKw8uQ?feature=player_embedded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
PS. Be sure to check out Jessie's other video's on her YouTube channel. She's got a dynamite voice that I know you'll love!</div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Luvs & Hugs</div>
<br />Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-2747451496928763042012-11-14T17:08:00.000-07:002012-11-14T17:08:17.389-07:00Special Kindnesses<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
<span style="font-family: inherit;">This
past week I have been on vacation with my family. We had many moments of
laughter, craziness, and special memories. I want to share one of those moments
with you today. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
<span style="font-family: inherit;">Tara,
hates the ride Tower of Terror. She is pretty brave on most rides, but this one
she just won't do. She will wait with us in the line, but then just as we go to
get on the ride we have to leave her waiting with the cast member running the
ride. We've done it before and they are always kind enough to let her just sit
there and wait for us, so we all get a chance to ride without having to leave
someone behind with her. This particular time we get up to the front of the
line and talked to the cast member about her staying behind. He agreed she
could wait with him and we all boarded the "elevator". When the ride
was over the elevator doors opened and instead of us seeing the cast member
running the ride standing there, it was Tara. She had on the workers hat, and
when the doors opened she stood there with the biggest grin on her face! She
looked at everyone and said, "Welcome back!" Everyone on the ride
started cheering and clapping. It was awesome! As everyone got off the ride she
pointed the way to the exit and told them all to "Have a great day at
California Adventure". It was so great!!! I don't think the cast member
had any idea how much she would play it up and do his job. He also had a big grin
on his face as he watched her and commented about how she really could work
there. Tara absolutely loved it! It was one of the best moments of the
trip! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiE0AW1jovmiiCwLM7rQft2yScaDCOG0BANRecR-ro-c0P_afOFhK5XzRtWCNGXCiiucQ_zvoWjxKc0ObpaxP1V-xL6Bc08PQFKIPXGaxy5S05mnA5gQdmb4SKsS0TcBFDnm0B-RPR5lAY/s1600/DSC02208.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiE0AW1jovmiiCwLM7rQft2yScaDCOG0BANRecR-ro-c0P_afOFhK5XzRtWCNGXCiiucQ_zvoWjxKc0ObpaxP1V-xL6Bc08PQFKIPXGaxy5S05mnA5gQdmb4SKsS0TcBFDnm0B-RPR5lAY/s320/DSC02208.JPG" width="240" /></span></a></div>
<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div>
<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
<span style="font-family: inherit;">It
made me so thankful for people who show special kindnesses to those around them
and make memorable moments for others. This was a simple little thing for the
cast member, but was a great memory my family will hold on to forever. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
<span style="font-family: inherit;">I
believe that every one of us has the opportunity every day to perform a special
kindness for someone in our life. It might be a close friend or family member,
or it could be a complete stranger. I challenge you all to look for those opportunities.
Be the one who does a simple act of kindness and gives someone a special smile.
You never know how much your small and simple act could mean to someone
else. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNoSpacing">
<span style="font-family: inherit;">Luvs
& Hugs<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div>
<div>
<span style="background-color: white; color: #454545; font-family: 'times new roman', 'new york', times, serif; font-size: 16px;"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<br /></div>
</div>
Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-57207842362173318762012-11-09T08:00:00.000-07:002012-11-09T08:00:08.098-07:00VacationI'm writing today to say that I am grateful for vacation!! I mean who isn't, right? Life is stressful and we all need a break from it now and again. I personally think vacations should be mandatory at least once a year.<br />
<br />
My idea of the perfect vacation has nothing to do with destination and everything to do with who I am vacationing with. I used to work for a travel company and once a year we would close down the company and travel to our main selling destinations in order to familiarize ourselves with what we were selling. It was work, but we also got to do a lot of playing. Yet, it wasn't nearly as much fun as when I head to that exact same place with friends or family. People make the difference!<br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikVJZ-9tc-PtyJhXHEmkFumF3jaRI0WsDyswAVv_KcN4tPko4oS7aBWx7L7ZxjygtQ4w2irvp6CUxGYJocWMfjqgW3LVQEAcHYF94xJT5uceUJ7TnK96ExG6NzGzLdac-J7wpGAl0dXO4/s1600/Disneyland.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="145" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikVJZ-9tc-PtyJhXHEmkFumF3jaRI0WsDyswAVv_KcN4tPko4oS7aBWx7L7ZxjygtQ4w2irvp6CUxGYJocWMfjqgW3LVQEAcHYF94xJT5uceUJ7TnK96ExG6NzGzLdac-J7wpGAl0dXO4/s200/Disneyland.jpg" width="200" /></a><br />
For someone who loves to travel I haven't been to many places, but I love to go where I can when I can. I love to fly, because it saves time. I can go from being stuck in my boring, lame, life to having a party at the beach in no time! However, road trips can add a lot of flavor to a vacation. Sometimes it is a bitter flavor, like if you're stuck in the car for hours and your legs get restless, but you have no room to stretch them out. It can also be sweet bonding time as you play the "movie line" game and pass around the fruit snacks! I recently went on a road trip with some friends and each time we stopped for gas we got out and did a 4-minute work-out in front of the car. It was fabulous!! Our bodies got stretched out, and we bonded while giggling through our jumping jacks.<br />
<br />
The worst part of a vacation is having to come home. Nothing is more depressing than leaving sunny California to head back to wintry Utah. Bleh! No matter what the weather is like or where you are vacationing leaving the carefree lifestyle of vacation to head back to "real" life is just a super let down. Good thing vacations are mandatory and we get to go on another one next year! Right?<br />
<br />
Luvs & HugsTiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-56741210695610723832012-11-07T09:00:00.000-07:002012-11-07T09:00:05.286-07:00I love my Mom!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOfPCb1fhzPdGRaXAyrielVGZXAbxNFoG21c5TNdt6vqfrBWET5A_SS-YgwBSKtegruPad1gCdzVxf-5jGYA0gEQ5q80UlD62Gk259jA3zUqzKnveRQldSe5Gibbm4XSUC_8YHcuaSwfw/s1600/scan0002.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOfPCb1fhzPdGRaXAyrielVGZXAbxNFoG21c5TNdt6vqfrBWET5A_SS-YgwBSKtegruPad1gCdzVxf-5jGYA0gEQ5q80UlD62Gk259jA3zUqzKnveRQldSe5Gibbm4XSUC_8YHcuaSwfw/s200/scan0002.jpg" width="159" /></a>My mom truly is the greatest. I know everyone says that about their mothers, but I really mean it!<br />
<br />
She has done so much for me and continues to be there for me no matter what I am going through. She is a strength to me when I'm down and have no where else to go. She can always cheer me up and get my mind off of whatever is bother me. My mom is the one person on Earth who understands how hard on me my health issues really are. She has been by my side through every bit of it. She has nursed me through several surgeries, ER visits, and pass out spells. I know that watching me go through it has never been easy on her, but no matter how scary it gets for her she never stops taking care of me. In order to pay my medical bills my mom has had to declare bankruptcy twice, but she never made me feel like it was my fault. She just lovingly took care of what needed taking care of. I love her so much for that.<br />
<br />
My mom is SUPER fun! I have so many memories of laughter and joy with her. All I have to do is think of one and I start laughing all over again. She is known for turning the simplest things into hilarious moments. If you know her then you know what I'm talking about. If not then you just need to meet her because describing how she does this is hard even for this wannabe writer. She just has a way about her that makes people feel good and generates laughter.<br />
<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
</div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfezR6_dO30pPACmUrgFTRwed2uEg-MioeWYvfHtPtxqcyrRT-dhvRYYRNVsAUR_GleBZPb7p_xwd1Fd2hdTMdbeyAmz1g6JQTAg7GMhcVc2l5pY-p1X45UHpYkTfl015wooIVpKnphfY/s1600/scan0033.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="309" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfezR6_dO30pPACmUrgFTRwed2uEg-MioeWYvfHtPtxqcyrRT-dhvRYYRNVsAUR_GleBZPb7p_xwd1Fd2hdTMdbeyAmz1g6JQTAg7GMhcVc2l5pY-p1X45UHpYkTfl015wooIVpKnphfY/s320/scan0033.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<br /></div>
One thing my mom doesn't realize is that she is a great example to me. I have watched her struggle through extremely difficult things and always come out on top. I've watched her get laid off job after job, but push through anyway. After getting laid off once again from a job she really enjoyed, I watched my mom go back to school for a field she'd never worked in before. She studied harder than anyone there, graduated sooner than everyone, and quickly found a job working in that field. Now she teaches the very classes she sat in only a few short years ago. That takes guts! I've watched my mom deal with a number of life challenges dealing with finances, relationships, health, family, etc. I know she doesn't enjoy it, I know she hates the trials life has thrown her way...but she never gives up, she never backs down, she doesn't sit around crying about it. She gets up and she pushes forward. She moves on and finds a way to make life bearable. I look up to her so much. I look at her and know that if she can do it, so can I.<br />
<br />
I love her so much she is more than just my mother, she is my best friend.Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-82812729452712843042012-11-06T08:30:00.000-07:002012-11-17T02:04:36.020-07:00Free Country<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
</div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDlAD6ObGT3S78I7xkbl5uR-cH2Gcq8_KhAjfVyjeClStdG7IMK4hbGGY3MA7qr2wZmqjg2N7zFotJOVb4ktNuAo8Lei9TYfjxGFWhbstWGZfSt34Uy5ZoHt6HFzC2bOpqePHIe5lIuHY/s1600/vote.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDlAD6ObGT3S78I7xkbl5uR-cH2Gcq8_KhAjfVyjeClStdG7IMK4hbGGY3MA7qr2wZmqjg2N7zFotJOVb4ktNuAo8Lei9TYfjxGFWhbstWGZfSt34Uy5ZoHt6HFzC2bOpqePHIe5lIuHY/s200/vote.jpg" width="150" /></a></div>
I am extremely grateful to live in a free country.<br />
<br />
I am not one who is big on politics. Let me rephrase that...politics make me crazy! Since this is a presidential year the craziness is over the top. I watch the debates and can't help but think it is just like watching two toddlers fighting over a toy, breaking it, and then telling mom that the other one did it. Every commercial that you see isn't telling you why you should vote for a person, but why you shouldn't vote for their opponent. People who have never met either candidate are suddenly experts on them and will tell you everything they know whether you want to hear it or not. There are legitimate debates held on television and a million other debates held on Facebook. Only those debates don't have a moderator and turn into more of a boxing match. Meanwhile, I silently decide who I want to vote for and then spend the rest of the time counting down the days until the madness ends.<br />
<br />
Having said that I am glad that all of this craziness happens because it means that we live in a free country. It means that I have the right to vote for my next president. I have opportunities given me that so many others in this world are denied. I have a right to choose who I will support. I have the freedom of speech to join in on the Facebook debates if I choose to. I even have the right to ignore these special opportunities and do nothing.<br />
<br />
As much as politics make me crazy it also makes me grateful. I am so blessed to live in The United States of America<br />
<br />Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-37117675899200728892012-11-04T19:24:00.002-07:002012-11-04T19:24:48.984-07:00Lazy Sunday'sToday I am thankful for lazy Sunday's. I had one of my spells yesterday and spent today resting it off. I love days where I stay in my pj's, sipping apple cider, and watching Psych on Netflix. I know that is what I spend most of my days doing, but it just feels cozier on a Sunday afternoon...maybe because I feel like that is a day set aside for rest and staying in my pj's all day on a Wednesday feels like I'm just being a bum! Yes, Sunday is the perfect pj's all day kind of day.<br />
<br />
Sunday's are a perfect day for catching up on missed TV shows, watching black and white movies, and taking extra long naps. Another thing I love doing on Sunday is curling up on the couch under a super cozy blanket and reading a book. Yes, Sunday is a good book reading kind of day.<br />
<br />
Sunday is also a good day to get together with family. I love Sunday family dinners and conversation. Sometimes we even clear off the table and play a game, or watch a movie together. Yes, Sunday is a good family togetherness kind of day.<br />
<br />
Sunday's are considered the Sabbath Day. Because I wasn't feeling well I wasn't able to attend church today, and there was definitely something missing from my day. I love going to church and feeling of the spirit. I love partaking of the sacrament and singing hymns. Yes, Sunday is a good fill your bucket for the rest of the week kind of day!<br />
<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaIy_FvMjkeakCLR0beigfgbwoRR8FkHFicOK_Do_RL8eFWOAJN3PN16y2jJ8k2M1ji86rWphVfvs3UUPZtrE9g3wQTQM5j5bTV5_3VTdL_byqdVVt4S_dGBYawv4fK4Kpyco2pnG3_c4/s1600/Lazy+Sunday.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="210" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaIy_FvMjkeakCLR0beigfgbwoRR8FkHFicOK_Do_RL8eFWOAJN3PN16y2jJ8k2M1ji86rWphVfvs3UUPZtrE9g3wQTQM5j5bTV5_3VTdL_byqdVVt4S_dGBYawv4fK4Kpyco2pnG3_c4/s320/Lazy+Sunday.png" width="320" /></a></div>
<br />Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-19713029482776167702012-11-03T19:29:00.001-06:002012-11-03T19:29:39.918-06:00Money<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="http://www.infobarrel.com/media/image/20362.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://www.infobarrel.com/media/image/20362.jpg" width="263" /></a></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
I'm sure I am not the only one who wishes money grew on trees. I'd plant me an orchard full of them if they did. A few rows for one's even more rows of twenty's, fifty's, and hundreds. I can picture myself walking through my lovely orchard each day admiring my foliage. I'm sure it would be kind of like an outdoor version of Scrooge McDuck swimming in his money on Ducktales. Ah...the image makes my heart smile. </div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Unfortunately, this is the point where I wake up and face reality...money does not grow on trees. Despite that fact I am grateful for the money I do have. I'm may not have an orchard full of Benjamin's, but I have what I need to pay my bills each month. I have the money I need to put food on the table every day. Those are the things that matter. I'm so thankful I have that. I know there are many in this world who don't and I don't want to take what I do have for granted. I feel very lucky and blessed. </div>
Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-44699060506526973712012-11-02T13:44:00.000-06:002012-11-02T13:44:00.434-06:00Cute CoupleToday I have some very happy news to report. I got a call a little after 1:00 am from my brother's girlfriend telling me how he had just proposed! They're engaged!! <div>
<br /></div>
<div>
I love my brother so much! He has always been such a light in our family. I have always been impressed by his carefree, happy, personality. He is one who definitely knows how to make the best out of any situation. He is always doing or saying something that makes me laugh. He's always there for me when I need him. He does so much to help our family with all the "manly" things that come up in life...and he very rarely complains. </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
Ashley is an absolute doll! She is very much like my brother in the fun personality department. She is super sweet and thoughtful of others. I also love how smart and crafty she is. I am so excited to have her joining our family! I'm getting another sister!! </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
These two are perfect for each other. Their personalities balance each other out nicely. It is definitely a match that was meant to be. The funny thing about these two is that they share the same birthday. They were born on the same day, in the same hospital, a few hours apart. They have often teased that they saw each other in the hospital nursery and made a plan then to meet and fall in love later down the road. :0)</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
Today I'm super grateful for this cute couple!</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggjriO_HS9qCYbfYVBtIrC0a7QIpVGIX8PbRTOyngewZYeCPSwoL8iXb9g1BF5NPjW80aMh-LQ2ieZSAx-Hq258rO_3CZqhb9xNk5eUoNGIarOhsxHSZSgjLbCcZ4Nh-pdy8YgDZXxydI/s1600/Cute_Couple.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggjriO_HS9qCYbfYVBtIrC0a7QIpVGIX8PbRTOyngewZYeCPSwoL8iXb9g1BF5NPjW80aMh-LQ2ieZSAx-Hq258rO_3CZqhb9xNk5eUoNGIarOhsxHSZSgjLbCcZ4Nh-pdy8YgDZXxydI/s320/Cute_Couple.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>
<div>
<br /></div>
Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4764011559926741474.post-67022048303171255512012-11-01T19:47:00.001-06:002012-11-01T19:47:12.016-06:00My Beautiful SisterIt's November 1st, which means it's time to start my daily "thankful" posts. Each day I will post a little about something I am thankful for that day. This year I am going to try and include a picture with each day as well...I'm quickly becoming addicted to Instagram!<br /><br />To start things off I have to say how grateful I am for my beautiful sister, Tara. She has been pretty sick this week, so I've spent the past few days hanging out with her. We all know being alone when you are sick is never any fun. We spent days watching Disney movies and reading stories. I love how even though she is sick Tara still has a smile on her face and does things to bring a smile to mine. <div>
<br /></div>
<div>
Last year when Tara broke her ankle I bought her a Disney Fairy book and thought it would be fun to read it to her using voices to make it more entertaining. At the time I had no idea how much she would love it. It has now become almost a tradition that when she is sick I read her a fairy book using my fairy voices. I guess it is a secret talent I never knew I had! Monday we loaded a new fairy book onto her kindle, snuggled up on the couch, and I started reading. The second we came to the first bit of dialogue and I used my best fairy voice, she just started giggling. It made me giggle as well.</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
One night before going to bed the topic of Christmas came up and she proceeded to tell me that I was going to get a really nice gift from Santa because I had been a good girl by helping her when she was sick. Hearing such a sweet little "Tara-style" compliment from her just melted my heart. </div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div>
I could go on and on about all the things she does that make me smile and fill my heart with love. She is such a special person and I am more than thankful to have her as my sister and best friend!!</div>
<div>
<br /></div>
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUzIr6Y4Thexx7fbbonU71UQJ9MA_pd7zm7a5sWcR-rIsZ7ETAbIo4woH6Lg1Sgxi4Acp7nEv8ZCZwNwZVgqZ4DYzSx7BRpO7LKjqxu-OWeipBMLQGvHH5tvCNP8eHUGTb-BOtv_ILfeA/s1600/20120509_194852.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUzIr6Y4Thexx7fbbonU71UQJ9MA_pd7zm7a5sWcR-rIsZ7ETAbIo4woH6Lg1Sgxi4Acp7nEv8ZCZwNwZVgqZ4DYzSx7BRpO7LKjqxu-OWeipBMLQGvHH5tvCNP8eHUGTb-BOtv_ILfeA/s320/20120509_194852.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>
<div>
<br /></div>
Tiffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16432086565553922106noreply@blogger.com0